A Balancing Game: How Gymnastics Taught Me to Manage Proposals Gracefully
Growing up, I dedicated an inordinate amount of my life to gymnastics. To excel in gymnastics, or even do moderately well, you have to spend a lot of time practicing—and so I spent a lot of time in the gym. I was a decent gymnast. I had some natural talent, but I had to work hard to get by. I wasn’t naturally flexible, nor was I particularly graceful. I spent what seemed like endless painful eternities being stretched by my coaches so that my legs looked straighter, my shoulders opened farther, and my splits split wider. I endured countless ballet and dance classes aimed at making my moves on the floor and balance beam less stilted and awkward. I eventually became pretty good at the sport—but my point is that it took a lot of work. So What Does This Have to Do With Proposals? As I reflect back on my experience as a gymnast, I realize that over the years, I have transferred so many of the lessons that I learned in the gym to how I deliver in the proposal room. In addi